{"id":21519,"date":"2024-10-04T00:55:21","date_gmt":"2024-10-04T00:55:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=21519"},"modified":"2024-10-04T00:55:22","modified_gmt":"2024-10-04T00:55:22","slug":"caught-between-loyalty-and-heartbreak-my-marriage-crisis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=21519","title":{"rendered":"Caught Between Loyalty and Heartbreak: My Marriage Crisis."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Caught Between Loyalty and Heartbreak: My Marriage Crisis, Dealing with betrayal and family pressure\u2014need advice.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"946\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/image-97-946x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-21520\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/image-97-946x1024.png 946w, https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/image-97-277x300.png 277w, https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/image-97-768x831.png 768w, https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/image-97.png 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 946px) 100vw, 946px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m on the verge of losing my mind. I&#8217;m 43 years old and have been married for 14 years with 3 kids. The past five years of this marriage have been a living hell. First, I found out about a child I never knew existed until after 10 years of marriage, and then the cheating started. It\u2019s been a nightmare ever since. I don&#8217;t even know how I&#8217;ve managed to cope up to this point. I want to leave, but I don&#8217;t know how because of my kids. I&#8217;m a product of a broken home, and I don\u2019t want that for my children. His family members are amazing\u2014any daughter-in-law would be lucky to have them. They\u2019ve been fully supportive, especially his mom and older sister. They\u2019re the main reason he hasn\u2019t married his side chick yet, as they keep telling him they won\u2019t accept another woman from him as a wife. But I\u2019m seriously exhausted; I need to leave for my own sanity. Yet, people keep telling me that as long as he takes care of the household, I should just ignore his behavior. How can I when he takes out his anger on me every time he has a fight with his side chick? I\u2019m just so tired of it all. I feel a bit relieved now after getting that off my chest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=21516\" title=\"\">also read&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Caught Between Loyalty and Heartbreak: My Marriage Crisis, Dealing with betrayal and family pressure\u2014need advice. I&#8217;m on the verge of losing my mind. I&#8217;m 43 years old&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":21520,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21519"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=21519"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21519\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21521,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21519\/revisions\/21521"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/21520"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=21519"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=21519"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=21519"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}