{"id":54096,"date":"2025-03-07T17:42:35","date_gmt":"2025-03-07T17:42:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=54096"},"modified":"2025-03-07T17:42:36","modified_gmt":"2025-03-07T17:42:36","slug":"when-i-was-a","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=54096","title":{"rendered":"When I was a >>>"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"511\" height=\"640\" src=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/image-372.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-54098\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/image-372.png 511w, https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/image-372-240x300.png 240w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 511px) 100vw, 511px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>When I was a little girl, my mother taught me how to use a code word if I was in trouble and couldn\u2019t speak up. As an adult, I decided to impart this brilliant method to my baby girl. I figured she could use it to get out of sleepovers or if she had awkward hangouts. But I never imagined her needing to use it so soon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"511\" height=\"640\" src=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/image-371.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-54097\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/image-371.png 511w, https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/image-371-240x300.png 240w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 511px) 100vw, 511px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Dave opened the door with a forced smile, his eyes a little too wide, as if he was trying to mask something. &#8220;Hey, Claire. Everything okay?&#8221; he asked, his tone too casual, too rehearsed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I didn\u2019t answer immediately. Instead, I looked past him, scanning the room for Amy. 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