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For birthdays, graduations, and small victories, my parents always focused on my sister. After years of feeling ignored, one man shared his story. I have a sister who is six years older than me. For years, my parents canceled plans with me because of her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I had a basketball game. \u201cOops, sorry, your sister doesn\u2019t want to go out.\u201d I was graduating. \u201cOops, sorry, your sister had a bad day at work.\u201d They missed both big and small events in my life because of her problems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When I met the love of my life and we decided to get married, I was worried my sister would ruin another special moment. My mom promised me that it wouldn\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On my wedding day, I got a voicemail from my mom saying they couldn\u2019t come because my sister\u2019s dog was sick and she was upset. I was heartbroken. My best man, who is a jokester, took my phone and asked my fianc\u00e9e if he could post a video of our wedding as a gift on social media. She loved the idea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I didn\u2019t know about it until we got home. Our honeymoon was at a lakeside cabin with no cell service.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The post\u2019s caption read, \u201cMy best friend. He is an amazing person, even if his parents NEVER showed up for him.\u201d The video was a slideshow of us with her parents, me on the dance floor, and us cutting the cake. Where you would normally see both sets of parents in wedding pictures, there were only hers. The audio behind the video was my mom\u2019s voicemail explaining why they couldn\u2019t come.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When I got home a week later, I had hundreds of messages. Family members from both sides told me to take it down. They said my sister hadn\u2019t stopped crying, and my mom wouldn\u2019t leave the house.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe I\u2019m the jerk here. I didn\u2019t take it down when I saw the messages. I didn\u2019t call my family back right away. I waited until my vacation was over and enjoyed my time with my wife in our new home before contacting anyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My dad told me to take down the video. He said it was \u201cjust a bad night for them\u201d and that they would make it up to me and my wife for not coming. I replied, \u201cHow do you plan to \u2019make up\u2019 my wedding? It\u2019s a once-in-a-lifetime event. You chose to ignore my feelings.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He repeated that they would make it up to me. I told him I would take down the video only when he made up for missing my wedding. Frustrated, we both hung up before saying things we shouldn\u2019t have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

People stood on his side.
\u201cThe truth hurts sometimes and your parents & sister just got whammied! Your friend is AWESOME. Please leave the video up!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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