{"id":57092,"date":"2025-03-27T11:12:37","date_gmt":"2025-03-27T11:12:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=57092"},"modified":"2025-03-27T11:12:37","modified_gmt":"2025-03-27T11:12:37","slug":"my-son-wasnt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=57092","title":{"rendered":"MY SON WASN\u2019T&#8230;."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"526\" height=\"789\" src=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/image-1235.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-57093\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/image-1235.png 526w, https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/image-1235-200x300.png 200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 526px) 100vw, 526px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I don\u2019t usually get involved in my kid\u2019s social life, figuring Luka would find his friends like I did at his age. But lately, something\u2019s been off. Every Monday, he\u2019d stay quiet while other kids chatted about birthday parties he wasn\u2019t invited to. After three months and several parties, nothing came home in his backpack. When I asked, he shrugged it off.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One Saturday, I caught him scrolling through party photos online, and I knew something was wrong. So, I messaged the parents, asking if there was something I needed to know. Hours later, I learned the truth: Luka had told his classmates that parties were &#8220;babyish&#8221; and that he\u2019d rather stay home. The kids took it literally, thinking he didn\u2019t want to be included.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It hit me\u2014his offhand comment after being teased for acting excited at a party had shut him out. I felt both relieved and guilty for misjudging the situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, I had to figure out how to address it. The first step was talking to Luka\u2014truly talking to him. That Sunday evening, I found him in his usual spot, sprawled on the living room carpet, messing around on his phone. I told him I had to share something important, so he powered off his device and gave me a cautious look.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I explained what I\u2019d discovered, and Luka admitted to hiding his love for parties to avoid being teased. I suggested we fix it together, planning a casual gathering. By the end, his classmates embraced him, and Luka learned the value of being himself. Communication healed misunderstandings and brought connection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>also read&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t usually get involved in my kid\u2019s social life, figuring Luka would find his friends like I did at his age. But lately, something\u2019s been off&#8230;. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":57093,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57092"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=57092"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57092\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":57094,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57092\/revisions\/57094"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/57093"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=57092"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=57092"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=57092"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}