{"id":64853,"date":"2025-06-17T10:54:35","date_gmt":"2025-06-17T10:54:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=64853"},"modified":"2025-06-17T10:54:35","modified_gmt":"2025-06-17T10:54:35","slug":"young-woman-was","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=64853","title":{"rendered":"Young woman was"},"content":{"rendered":"<article class=\"text-token-text-primary w-full\" dir=\"auto\" data-testid=\"conversation-turn-4\" data-scroll-anchor=\"true\">\n<div class=\"text-base my-auto mx-auto py-5 [--thread-content-margin:--spacing(4)] @[37rem]:[--thread-content-margin:--spacing(6)] @[72rem]:[--thread-content-margin:--spacing(16)] px-(--thread-content-margin)\">\n<div class=\"[--thread-content-max-width:32rem] @[34rem]:[--thread-content-max-width:40rem] @[64rem]:[--thread-content-max-width:48rem] mx-auto flex max-w-(--thread-content-max-width) flex-1 text-base gap-4 md:gap-5 lg:gap-6 group\/turn-messages focus-visible:outline-hidden\" tabindex=\"-1\">\n<div class=\"group\/conversation-turn relative flex w-full min-w-0 flex-col agent-turn\">\n<div class=\"relative flex-col gap-1 md:gap-3\">\n<div class=\"flex max-w-full flex-col grow\">\n<div class=\"min-h-8 text-message relative flex w-full flex-col items-end gap-2 text-start break-words whitespace-normal [.text-message+&amp;]:mt-5\" dir=\"auto\" data-message-author-role=\"assistant\" data-message-id=\"ecd76b33-2f82-44f0-853f-794a58099f03\" data-message-model-slug=\"gpt-4o\">\n<div class=\"flex w-full flex-col gap-1 empty:hidden first:pt-[3px]\">\n<div class=\"markdown prose dark:prose-invert w-full break-words dark\">\n<p data-start=\"0\" data-end=\"85\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-64854\" src=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/photo_2025-06-17_11-49-32-300x298.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"298\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/photo_2025-06-17_11-49-32-300x298.jpg 300w, https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/photo_2025-06-17_11-49-32-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/photo_2025-06-17_11-49-32.jpg 524w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"0\" data-end=\"85\"><strong data-start=\"0\" data-end=\"85\">My First Time Landed Me in the Hospital \u2013 Here&#8217;s Why We Need Better Sex Education<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"87\" data-end=\"516\">The first time I had sex, I ended up in the hospital. What should\u2019ve been an awkward rite of passage turned into a traumatic, blood-soaked emergency. I wasn\u2019t prepared\u2014physically, mentally, or emotionally. There was no foreplay, no comfort, and I didn\u2019t feel safe. The pain was immediate, and the bleeding was terrifying. I soaked through multiple pads, fainted, and was rushed to A&amp;E with tears in my eyes and fear in my chest.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"518\" data-end=\"701\">Doctors discovered I had vaginal tears from rough, unprepared penetration. I stayed in the hospital for two nights. I couldn\u2019t tell my parents\u2014I wasn\u2019t even supposed to be having sex.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"703\" data-end=\"951\">That experience taught me that first time sex should <em data-start=\"756\" data-end=\"763\">never<\/em> be painful, and bleeding isn\u2019t normal for everyone. What\u2019s missing in our culture is real, pleasure-focused sex education. Young girls are left to learn through pain instead of knowledge.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"953\" data-end=\"1175\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Today, sex feels different\u2014safe, empowering, and enjoyable\u2014because I waited until I was truly ready. If I could go back, I\u2019d tell myself: Your body matters. Your pleasure matters. And you deserve to feel ready, every time.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"953\" data-end=\"1175\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\"><a href=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=64725\">also read&#8230;.<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"flex min-h-[46px] justify-start\">\n<div class=\"touch:-me-2 touch:-ms-3.5 -ms-2.5 -me-1 flex flex-wrap items-center gap-y-4 p-1 select-none touch:w-[calc(100%+--spacing(3.5))] -mt-1 w-[calc(100%+--spacing(2.5))] duration-[1.5s] focus-within:transition-none hover:transition-none pointer-events-none [mask-image:linear-gradient(to_right,black_33%,transparent_66%)] [mask-size:300%_100%] [mask-position:100%_0%] motion-safe:transition-[mask-position] group-hover\/turn-messages:pointer-events-auto group-hover\/turn-messages:[mask-position:0_0] group-focus-within\/turn-messages:pointer-events-auto group-focus-within\/turn-messages:[mask-position:0_0] has-data-[state=open]:pointer-events-auto has-data-[state=open]:[mask-position:0_0]\">\n<div class=\"flex items-center\"><\/div>\n<p><button class=\"text-token-text-secondary hover:bg-token-bg-secondary rounded-lg\" aria-label=\"Share\" aria-selected=\"false\" data-state=\"closed\"><\/button><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mt-3 w-full empty:hidden\">\n<div class=\"text-center\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"absolute\">\n<div class=\"flex items-center justify-center\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n<div class=\"pointer-events-none h-px w-px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" data-edge=\"true\"><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My First Time Landed Me in the Hospital \u2013 Here&#8217;s Why We Need Better Sex Education The first time I had sex, I ended up in the&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":64854,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64853"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=64853"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64853\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":64855,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64853\/revisions\/64855"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/64854"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=64853"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=64853"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=64853"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}