{"id":65150,"date":"2025-06-19T04:15:00","date_gmt":"2025-06-19T04:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=65150"},"modified":"2025-06-19T04:15:00","modified_gmt":"2025-06-19T04:15:00","slug":"if-when-you-make-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=65150","title":{"rendered":"If when you make love,"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"41\" data-end=\"479\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-65151\" src=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/503751625_122095947926902794_7878341047925232658_n-720x400-1-300x167.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"167\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/503751625_122095947926902794_7878341047925232658_n-720x400-1-300x167.jpg 300w, https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/503751625_122095947926902794_7878341047925232658_n-720x400-1.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"41\" data-end=\"479\">If your girlfriend avoids kissing you, it can feel confusing or even hurtful\u2014but the reasons might be simpler (and more fixable) than you think. From personal hygiene to emotional disconnection, there are many explanations. Bad breath and chapped lips are top culprits, so make sure you\u2019re fresh and hydrated. Your kissing technique might also be too aggressive or not in sync with hers\u2014slow down, follow her lead, and ask what she likes.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"481\" data-end=\"795\">Emotional factors can also be at play. If you\u2019ve argued recently, she may feel disconnected. Or she may be stressed, busy, or simply not in the mood. In those moments, offering support and listening without pressure can help reconnect you. She might feel nervous if she\u2019s out of practice or this is all new to her.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"797\" data-end=\"1168\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Sometimes, a kiss may carry emotional weight she\u2019s not ready for\u2014especially if she views your relationship casually or worries that kissing signals the expectation of sex. Respect her boundaries. Lastly, some people simply aren\u2019t fans of kissing. The key is open, respectful communication. Ask what she\u2019s comfortable with and what intimacy looks like for her\u2014and for you.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"797\" data-end=\"1168\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\"><a href=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=65118\">also read&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If your girlfriend avoids kissing you, it can feel confusing or even hurtful\u2014but the reasons might be simpler (and more fixable) than you think. From personal hygiene&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":65151,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65150"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=65150"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65150\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":65152,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65150\/revisions\/65152"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/65151"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=65150"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=65150"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=65150"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}