{"id":65389,"date":"2025-06-21T05:50:03","date_gmt":"2025-06-21T05:50:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=65389"},"modified":"2025-06-21T05:50:03","modified_gmt":"2025-06-21T05:50:03","slug":"if-they-make","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=65389","title":{"rendered":"If They Make"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<article class=\"text-token-text-primary w-full\" dir=\"auto\" data-testid=\"conversation-turn-10\" data-scroll-anchor=\"true\">\n<div class=\"text-base my-auto mx-auto py-5 [--thread-content-margin:--spacing(4)] @[37rem]:[--thread-content-margin:--spacing(6)] @[72rem]:[--thread-content-margin:--spacing(16)] px-(--thread-content-margin)\">\n<div class=\"[--thread-content-max-width:32rem] @[34rem]:[--thread-content-max-width:40rem] @[64rem]:[--thread-content-max-width:48rem] mx-auto flex max-w-(--thread-content-max-width) flex-1 text-base gap-4 md:gap-5 lg:gap-6 group\/turn-messages focus-visible:outline-hidden\" tabindex=\"-1\">\n<div class=\"group\/conversation-turn relative flex w-full min-w-0 flex-col agent-turn\">\n<div class=\"relative flex-col gap-1 md:gap-3\">\n<div class=\"flex max-w-full flex-col grow\">\n<div class=\"min-h-8 text-message relative flex w-full flex-col items-end gap-2 text-start break-words whitespace-normal [.text-message+&amp;]:mt-5\" dir=\"auto\" data-message-author-role=\"assistant\" data-message-id=\"9424d3b3-55e7-4034-b046-f0c7489b46f2\" data-message-model-slug=\"gpt-4o\">\n<div class=\"flex w-full flex-col gap-1 empty:hidden first:pt-[3px]\">\n<div class=\"markdown prose dark:prose-invert w-full break-words dark\">\n<p data-start=\"81\" data-end=\"261\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-65390\" src=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/photo_2025-06-21_06-46-29-279x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"279\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/photo_2025-06-21_06-46-29-279x300.jpg 279w, https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/photo_2025-06-21_06-46-29.jpg 496w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 279px) 100vw, 279px\" \/><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"81\" data-end=\"261\">Let\u2019s be honest\u2014making love without kissing can feel incomplete, like spaghetti without sauce. If your partner skips kisses in bed, you might start to wonder: <em data-start=\"240\" data-end=\"261\">Is something wrong?<\/em><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"263\" data-end=\"388\">But before spiraling, consider this: there are valid reasons someone might avoid kissing\u2014and it\u2019s not always about love lost.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"390\" data-end=\"560\">First, not all cultures emphasize kissing. A global study found only 46% of societies practice romantic or sexual kissing. For many, it\u2019s simply not part of the playbook.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"562\" data-end=\"738\">Second, kissing is deeply intimate. Eye contact, synced breathing\u2014it\u2019s vulnerability on display. Some emotionally guarded people might find it overwhelming, even more than sex.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"740\" data-end=\"880\">Third, performance-focused partners may prioritize physicality over connection. Kissing, being slow and tender, doesn\u2019t \u201cfit\u201d their routine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"882\" data-end=\"1015\">There\u2019s also mouth insecurity\u2014bad breath, dental issues, chapped lips. Over 40% of singles have avoided kisses for this reason alone.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1017\" data-end=\"1150\">Finally, for some, kissing equals deep love. They reserve it for those they\u2019re falling for\u2014and might be afraid of that vulnerability.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1152\" data-end=\"1238\">What should you do? Don\u2019t assume. Talk. Ask gently. Express what kissing means to you.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1240\" data-end=\"1313\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Because sometimes, the answer isn\u2019t in the kiss\u2014it\u2019s in the conversation.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1240\" data-end=\"1313\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\"><a href=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=65310\">also read&#8230;<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Let\u2019s be honest\u2014making love without kissing can feel incomplete, like spaghetti without sauce. 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