{"id":65595,"date":"2025-06-23T18:30:14","date_gmt":"2025-06-23T18:30:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=65595"},"modified":"2025-06-23T18:35:37","modified_gmt":"2025-06-23T18:35:37","slug":"65595","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=65595","title":{"rendered":"At My Husband&#8217;s"},"content":{"rendered":"<article class=\"text-token-text-primary w-full\" dir=\"auto\" data-testid=\"conversation-turn-18\" data-scroll-anchor=\"true\">\n<div class=\"text-base my-auto mx-auto py-5 [--thread-content-margin:--spacing(4)] @[37rem]:[--thread-content-margin:--spacing(6)] @[72rem]:[--thread-content-margin:--spacing(16)] px-(--thread-content-margin)\">\n<div class=\"[--thread-content-max-width:32rem] @[34rem]:[--thread-content-max-width:40rem] @[64rem]:[--thread-content-max-width:48rem] mx-auto flex max-w-(--thread-content-max-width) flex-1 text-base gap-4 md:gap-5 lg:gap-6 group\/turn-messages focus-visible:outline-hidden\" tabindex=\"-1\">\n<div class=\"group\/conversation-turn relative flex w-full min-w-0 flex-col agent-turn\">\n<div class=\"relative flex-col gap-1 md:gap-3\">\n<div class=\"flex max-w-full flex-col grow\">\n<div class=\"min-h-8 text-message relative flex w-full flex-col items-end gap-2 text-start break-words whitespace-normal [.text-message+&amp;]:mt-5\" dir=\"auto\" data-message-author-role=\"assistant\" data-message-id=\"74414e2f-e486-4d9c-83b4-e2f3ed5a4bd9\" data-message-model-slug=\"gpt-4o\">\n<div class=\"flex w-full flex-col gap-1 empty:hidden first:pt-[3px]\">\n<div class=\"markdown prose dark:prose-invert w-full break-words dark\">\n<p data-start=\"104\" data-end=\"295\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-65597\" src=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/509363259_1034781722169246_1662032879685786645_n-240x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/509363259_1034781722169246_1662032879685786645_n-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/509363259_1034781722169246_1662032879685786645_n.jpg 512w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"104\" data-end=\"295\">I met Aidan at a beach bonfire\u2014October chill in the air, firelight in his eyes. He remembered how I took my coffee and made soup when I was sick. Thoughtful. Kind. We married two years later.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"297\" data-end=\"406\">After the wedding, he asked me to quit my job. \u201cLet me take care of us,\u201d he said. I loved him, so I said yes.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"408\" data-end=\"431\">That\u2019s when he changed.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"433\" data-end=\"574\">Coffee stopped. Lists started\u2014groceries, chores, dinners. Affection vanished, replaced by silent expectations. I became the maid, not a wife.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"576\" data-end=\"644\">I mentioned freelance work. He shrugged, \u201cNo need. You&#8217;re home now.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"646\" data-end=\"840\">Then came his birthday. The house was full. I served appetizers I spent hours making, and Aidan cut through the room with a cruel joke. \u201cHow much of my money did you spend today?\u201d Laughter died.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"842\" data-end=\"896\">\u201cYou live off me. Not even a gift. Not even pregnant.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"898\" data-end=\"961\">Then my father stood. \u201cShe lives off you\u2014just like you wanted.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"963\" data-end=\"1025\">My mother added, \u201cShe runs this home. If it\u2019s a job, pay her.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1027\" data-end=\"1035\">Silence.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1037\" data-end=\"1107\">That\u2019s when I knew\u2014I hadn\u2019t lost myself. I\u2019d just been quiet too long.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1109\" data-end=\"1142\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">And I was finally ready to speak.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1109\" data-end=\"1142\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\"><a href=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=65542\">also read&#8230;.<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"flex min-h-[46px] justify-start\">\n<div class=\"touch:-me-2 touch:-ms-3.5 -ms-2.5 -me-1 flex flex-wrap items-center gap-y-4 p-1 select-none touch:w-[calc(100%+--spacing(3.5))] -mt-1 w-[calc(100%+--spacing(2.5))] duration-[1.5s] focus-within:transition-none hover:transition-none pointer-events-none [mask-image:linear-gradient(to_right,black_33%,transparent_66%)] [mask-size:300%_100%] [mask-position:100%_0%] motion-safe:transition-[mask-position] group-hover\/turn-messages:pointer-events-auto group-hover\/turn-messages:[mask-position:0_0] group-focus-within\/turn-messages:pointer-events-auto group-focus-within\/turn-messages:[mask-position:0_0] has-data-[state=open]:pointer-events-auto has-data-[state=open]:[mask-position:0_0]\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I met Aidan at a beach bonfire\u2014October chill in the air, firelight in his eyes. 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