{"id":65828,"date":"2025-06-25T12:59:52","date_gmt":"2025-06-25T12:59:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=65828"},"modified":"2025-06-25T12:59:52","modified_gmt":"2025-06-25T12:59:52","slug":"when-my-cousin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=65828","title":{"rendered":"When my cousin"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 class=\"entry-title\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-65829\" src=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/504380928_574360315731052_736964446452705100_n-1-512x381-1-300x223.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"223\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/504380928_574360315731052_736964446452705100_n-1-512x381-1-300x223.jpg 300w, https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/504380928_574360315731052_736964446452705100_n-1-512x381-1.jpg 512w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/h1>\n<p>I paused, trying to process it. \u201cSo\u2026 are you inviting more people now? Or still just the original ten?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She hesitated. \u201cWe\u2019re expanding the guest list a little. Not too much\u2014just close family and a few friends. We want to keep it intimate.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I nodded even though she couldn\u2019t see me. \u201cOkay. So, am I still invited?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She laughed more genuinely this time. \u201cOf course! You\u2019re family. I\u2019ll send you the details soon.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I hung up, feeling a mix of excitement and confusion. Hawaii sounded like a dream, but something didn\u2019t sit right. Why the sudden shift? Why did it feel like there was more to the story?<\/p>\n<p>A few days later, the formal invitation arrived. It was stunning\u2014a glossy card with an image of the resort tucked between lush green mountains and the brilliant blue ocean. The ceremony was planned for sunset on the beach, followed by a reception under the stars. It all sounded magical.<\/p>\n<p>But something caught my eye. The RSVP deadline was just two weeks away, and the wedding was scheduled barely a month later. That felt rushed, especially for a destination event.<\/p>\n<p>I talked to my mom about it\u2014she\u2019s the level-headed one in our family.<br \/>\nWhen I explained the last-minute change, she frowned. \u201cThat is unusual. Did she say why they\u2019re hurrying everything?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I shook my head. \u201cShe just said it was a great opportunity they couldn\u2019t turn down.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>My mom sighed. \u201cWell, we\u2019ll see. Just make sure you book your flights soon. Hawaii isn\u2019t the kind of place you can plan for last-minute.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=65521\">also read&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I paused, trying to process it. \u201cSo\u2026 are you inviting more people now? Or still just the original ten?\u201d She hesitated. \u201cWe\u2019re expanding the guest list a&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":65829,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65828"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=65828"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65828\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":65830,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65828\/revisions\/65830"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/65829"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=65828"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=65828"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=65828"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}