{"id":66341,"date":"2025-06-29T15:21:43","date_gmt":"2025-06-29T15:21:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=66341"},"modified":"2025-06-29T15:21:43","modified_gmt":"2025-06-29T15:21:43","slug":"my-husband-said-that","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=66341","title":{"rendered":"My Husband Said That"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"flex basis-auto flex-col -mb-(--composer-overlap-px) [--composer-overlap-px:24px] grow overflow-hidden\">\n<div class=\"relative h-full\">\n<div class=\"flex h-full flex-col overflow-y-auto [scrollbar-gutter:stable_both-edges] @[84rem]\/thread:pt-(--header-height)\">\n<div class=\"@thread-xl\/thread:pt-header-height flex flex-col text-sm pb-25\">\n<article class=\"text-token-text-primary w-full\" dir=\"auto\" data-testid=\"conversation-turn-2\" data-scroll-anchor=\"true\">\n<div class=\"text-base my-auto mx-auto py-5 [--thread-content-margin:--spacing(4)] @[37rem]:[--thread-content-margin:--spacing(6)] @[72rem]:[--thread-content-margin:--spacing(16)] px-(--thread-content-margin)\">\n<div class=\"[--thread-content-max-width:32rem] @[34rem]:[--thread-content-max-width:40rem] @[64rem]:[--thread-content-max-width:48rem] mx-auto flex max-w-(--thread-content-max-width) flex-1 text-base gap-4 md:gap-5 lg:gap-6 group\/turn-messages focus-visible:outline-hidden\" tabindex=\"-1\">\n<div class=\"group\/conversation-turn relative flex w-full min-w-0 flex-col agent-turn\">\n<div class=\"relative flex-col gap-1 md:gap-3\">\n<div class=\"flex max-w-full flex-col grow\">\n<div class=\"min-h-8 text-message relative flex w-full flex-col items-end gap-2 text-start break-words whitespace-normal [.text-message+&amp;]:mt-5\" dir=\"auto\" data-message-author-role=\"assistant\" data-message-id=\"bc857bac-b3dc-4c57-8257-7425b094073c\" data-message-model-slug=\"gpt-4o\">\n<div class=\"flex w-full flex-col gap-1 empty:hidden first:pt-[3px]\">\n<div class=\"markdown prose dark:prose-invert w-full break-words dark\">\n<p data-start=\"0\" data-end=\"316\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-66342\" src=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/504683422_122292528092003849_3907215100021367213_n-240x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/504683422_122292528092003849_3907215100021367213_n-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/504683422_122292528092003849_3907215100021367213_n-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/504683422_122292528092003849_3907215100021367213_n-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/504683422_122292528092003849_3907215100021367213_n.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"0\" data-end=\"316\">Mark always said that diner wasn\u2019t my kind of place\u2014too greasy, too loud, too full of strangers and stories we didn\u2019t want to know. But more than that, he said <em data-start=\"160\" data-end=\"164\">he<\/em> didn\u2019t like it. Claimed the smell of fryer grease and stale coffee reminded him of other people\u2019s problems, soaked into the vinyl booths like regret.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"318\" data-end=\"477\">Then he started going\u2014once a week, always alone. At first, I didn\u2019t question it. Said it was just \u201csomewhere quiet to think.\u201d But something didn\u2019t sit right.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"479\" data-end=\"728\">One rainy evening, I followed him. Parked across the street, heart pounding. Through the foggy window, I saw him. Not just sitting there. Smiling. Laughing. And she was there too\u2014a young waitress with a warm smile and a hand resting gently on his.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"730\" data-end=\"871\">It wasn\u2019t the touch that broke me. It was the way he looked at her. Like she was the answer to a question I didn\u2019t even know he was asking.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"873\" data-end=\"996\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">In that moment, I realized the diner wasn\u2019t the problem. It was me. 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