{"id":67211,"date":"2025-07-07T10:52:09","date_gmt":"2025-07-07T10:52:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=67211"},"modified":"2025-07-07T10:52:09","modified_gmt":"2025-07-07T10:52:09","slug":"every-first-saturday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=67211","title":{"rendered":"Every First Saturday"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"content\"><main id=\"main\"><\/p>\n<article id=\"post-6008\">\n<div>\n<p data-start=\"86\" data-end=\"514\">I thought I knew the man I married. Jeremy was charming, thoughtful, and tender\u2014leaving handwritten notes, dancing with me in the kitchen, and dreaming with me about babies and our future. But after two years of marriage, he started disappearing on the first Saturday of each month with vague excuses. When I asked about joining him, he claimed his aunt Lina didn\u2019t like me. That explanation didn\u2019t sit right, so I followed him.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"516\" data-end=\"955\">With a GPS tracker hidden in his car, I traced Jeremy to a rundown house far from our neighborhood. What I found shook me to the core. Inside was a grief counseling session\u2014Jeremy stood in the center, clutching a framed photo and speaking about a deceased wife named Hannah. He described their love, her tragic death from cancer, and the future they\u2019d planned. I was frozen, devastated, and confused. Who was Hannah? Why had he hidden her?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"957\" data-end=\"1313\">When I confronted him outside, the truth was worse than anything I\u2019d imagined. Hannah never existed. Jeremy confessed he had fabricated various personas\u2014grieving widower, recovering addict, terminal patient\u2014to secretly attend support groups and practice acting. He said it helped him build emotional range for roles he hoped to one day play professionally.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1315\" data-end=\"1572\">I was horrified. These groups were safe havens for real pain, not stages for performance. I drove home in shock, our marriage unraveling in my mind. Jeremy came home with pastries, begging me not to tell anyone. But I no longer recognized the man before me.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1574\" data-end=\"1621\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Now, weeks later, the damage feels irreparable.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1574\" data-end=\"1621\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\"><a href=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=67198\">also read&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n<p><\/main><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I thought I knew the man I married. Jeremy was charming, thoughtful, and tender\u2014leaving handwritten notes, dancing with me in the kitchen, and dreaming with me about&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":67212,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/67211"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=67211"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/67211\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":67213,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/67211\/revisions\/67213"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/67212"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=67211"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=67211"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=67211"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}