{"id":70852,"date":"2025-08-07T04:32:22","date_gmt":"2025-08-07T04:32:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=70852"},"modified":"2025-08-07T04:32:22","modified_gmt":"2025-08-07T04:32:22","slug":"i-had-a-child-at","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=70852","title":{"rendered":"I Had a Child at"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"526\" height=\"526\" src=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/image-213.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-70853\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/image-213.png 526w, https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/image-213-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/image-213-150x150.png 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 526px) 100vw, 526px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>My husband and I never wanted kids, but when I turned 40, my mom threatened to disinherit me if I didn\u2019t give her a grandchild. I had a daughter, and my mom mostly raised her. After she died 15 years later, I found her valuables gone and a note in her jewelry box that said,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI had to choose the right person\u2026\u201d At the will reading, I learned my daughter will inherit everything when she turns 18 in three years. Until then, I\u2019m allowed just $1,000 a month for her expenses. My daughter already knew\u2014my mom had told her. Looking back,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I realize my mom resented me for rejecting the family business. She wanted a grandchild to mold, and I was just a means to that end. Now,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I feel cheated but don\u2019t have the relationship with my daughter to ask for her support. How do I handle this? \u2014Delilah PS: I know it sounds like I had my child for money, but I only wanted to please my mother, who always saw me as a failure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=70849\">also read&#8230;.<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/digitalnews24.press\/archives\/author\/admin\"><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My husband and I never wanted kids, but when I turned 40, my mom threatened to disinherit me if I didn\u2019t give her a grandchild. I had&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":70853,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70852"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=70852"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70852\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":70854,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70852\/revisions\/70854"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/70853"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=70852"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=70852"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=70852"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}