{"id":86882,"date":"2026-02-03T10:28:30","date_gmt":"2026-02-03T10:28:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=86882"},"modified":"2026-02-03T10:28:33","modified_gmt":"2026-02-03T10:28:33","slug":"looking-back-and-finding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=86882","title":{"rendered":"Looking Back and finding"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I grew up believing our struggles were my mother\u2019s fault. While other kids talked about vacations and new clothes, I learned how to make things last. As a child, I mistook sacrifice for limitation, and that quiet resentment followed me into adulthood\u2014even after I built a stable life of my own.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Years later, on my child\u2019s birthday, my mother arrived with a small, plainly wrapped gift. Inside was an old sweater from my childhood. Without thinking, I snapped. I told her it was useless, a reminder we didn\u2019t need. She didn\u2019t argue\u2014just smiled, wished my child happy birthday, and left.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not long after, she passed away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While sorting through her belongings, my aunt handed me the same sweater. This time, I noticed the uneven hand-stitched repairs and my initials sewn inside the hem. My mother had stayed up late mending it so I\u2019d stay warm and not lose it at the laundromat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What I once saw as lack was love. Not abundance\u2014but devotion, quietly stitched into fabric.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/?p=86843\">also read&#8230;.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I grew up believing our struggles were my mother\u2019s fault. While other kids talked about vacations and new clothes, I learned how to make things last. As&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86882"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=86882"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86882\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":86883,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86882\/revisions\/86883"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=86882"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=86882"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pulsperry.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=86882"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}