In 1973, a single photograph, “Burst of Joy,” captured a jubilant family rushing toward a returning POW, encapsulating a rare moment of pure emotion amidst the lingering shadows of the Vietnam War. Taken at Travis Air Force Base in California, the image symbolized hope and reunion, and its power earned it the Pulitzer Prize the following year. But behind the euphoria and celebration, the true story carried a haunting twist that reshaped the narrative
The Vietnam War left deep scars on the American psyche, and moments of joy like this were few and far between. On March 17, 1973, Lt. Col. Robert L. Stirm, an Air Force fighter pilot, returned home after six harrowing years as a prisoner of war in North Vietnam. Shot down in 1967, he endured years of torture, gunshot wounds, mock executions, and captivity. His family had long feared the worst, and his unexpected survival felt like a miracle.
Waiting for him on the tarmac were his wife, Loretta, and their four children: Lorrie, 15, leading the charge; her brother Robert Jr.; sister Cindy; and youngest brother Roger, 12. The photograph captured the raw, unfiltered joy as they sprinted toward him. Lorrie, dressed in a carefully chosen fuchsia miniskirt, her arms outstretched, became the heart of the image, earning her the nickname “The Leaper.” Photographer Slava “Sal” Veder instinctively captured the moment, preserving an indelible piece of history.
The photo spread like wildfire, gracing the front pages of newspapers across the nation. For many, it became the ultimate symbol of homecoming and national healing, representing every family waiting for loved ones to return. Yet the image didn’t tell the full story, concealing a heartbreak that cast a long shadow over the reunion.
Just three days before stepping onto American soil, Lt. Col. Stirm received devastating news. A military chaplain delivered a letter from Loretta, a “Dear John” message that shattered his hopes of returning to a stable family life. In the letter, Loretta informed him that their marriage was over. “I have changed drastically,” she wrote. “Bob, I feel sure that in your heart you know we can’t make it together… Life is too short.”
During Stirm’s years in captivity, Loretta had faced immense challenges raising their four children alone. She had also entered relationships with other men, three of whom proposed to her. By the time Stirm returned, Loretta had already moved on emotionally, leaving him to grapple with the dual burden of war’s trauma and personal betrayal.
The image that had come to symbolize triumph and unity was, for Stirm, a bittersweet reminder of loss. Reflecting on it years later, he admitted, “I can’t help but feel ambivalent about it. I was very pleased to see my children—I loved them and still do—but there was a lot to deal with.”
Within a year of his return, Robert and Loretta divorced. Loretta quickly remarried and relocated to Texas with her new husband. Despite her infidelity, a judge ordered Stirm to give Loretta 43% of his military retirement pay, a decision he viewed as ironic and unjust. “She lived a lie,” he later remarked, expressing frustration at how the legal system failed to reflect the reality of their marriage’s breakdown.
The divorce split the family, with Lorrie and Robert Jr. staying with their father while Cindy and Roger lived with their mother. The emotional toll on the children was profound. “There was so much that my dad missed out on,” Lorrie said. “It took a while to let him back into our lives and accept his authority.”
For years, Stirm refused to display Burst of Joy in his home, unable to reconcile the public image with his private pain. Yet his children found meaning in the photograph, each hanging a copy in their homes. “It’s a wonderful piece of history,” Lorrie said. “It brings back all the joy that was there.” Her younger sister Cindy, however, felt a sense of distance. “It seems like another lifetime ago,” she reflected. “I look at the picture, and I don’t see me. I didn’t really know him when he left.
