On my wife’s birthday, I surprised her with a DVD of Titanic. When our three-year-old son, Max, saw the cover, he tilted his head and asked, “Can I watch it after nursery?” Without thinking, I told him, “No—that one’s just for grown-ups.”
Later that day, his teacher was nearly in tears from laughing as she explained how Max had spent the entire morning telling everyone, “Mommy and Daddy watch Titanic alone at night because it’s for grown-ups only.”
At home, I confirmed to Max that it really was just the movie about the ship, starring Leonardo DiCaprio. My wife burst out laughing, nearly sliding off the couch. That little misunderstanding quickly became one of our favorite family stories—until it sparked something unexpected.
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Max’s curiosity shifted from the DVD to the real Titanic. He peppered us with questions: “Why did it sink? Did people survive? Was there a slide?” He built giant Duplo replicas complete with tiny icebergs, and even turned bathtime into dramatic reenactments of the disaster.
One evening, over chicken nuggets, he looked up at me and asked, “Daddy, why didn’t the captain see the iceberg?” I thought for a moment, then said, “Sometimes people go too fast and miss what’s right in front of them.” Max nodded thoughtfully, then whispered, “That’s what happened to you and Mommy.”
My heart froze. He meant our whirlwind engagement and quick marriage after finding out we were expecting. We’d never spoken aloud about how unprepared we felt.
That night, my wife and I talked openly for the first time in years—not fighting, just admitting how far we’d drifted. Over the following weeks, we made small but meaningful changes. Friday nights became sacred family time. My wife picked up painting again. I started leaving work early just to play with Max. The Titanic DVD gathered dust while we quietly found our way back to each other.
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Max’s Titanic phase eventually faded, replaced by new fascinations—dinosaurs, volcanoes, black holes—but his questions never lost their depth. At five, he asked why I smiled when I was tired. At seven, he told his mother she should write a book.
On his ninth birthday, we visited Halifax’s Maritime Museum. Standing before a recovered deck chair from the Titanic, Max whispered, “This is where it happened. Right here.” When we asked how he knew, he simply shrugged: “I just do.”
That night, he watched Titanic for the first time—without fidgeting, without looking away. When it ended, he said quietly, “They were too proud. That’s why it sank.”
