Superheroes — But Close Enough

Our parents worked hard, shed tears, and made sacrifices to raise us as best they could. While they lack the physical superpowers of the characters in our favorite comic books, their profound generosity, infinite love, and unending care make them real-life superheroes. Today, we share tales of the most emotional gestures our parents performed to keep us safe and fulfilled.

Story 1:

My father never liked my spouse. He thought I deserved a better man. On our wedding day, he appeared concerned and repeatedly asked me, “Are you certain this is what you want? “Are you certain he’s the one?” I responded: “One day, you too will see his good side!” He nodded.

Last week, Dad suffered a stroke. When I told my husband, he was at work, preparing for an important meeting. He canceled it and hurried to my side, ensuring that my family and I were completely supported.

Later, I went to my parents’ house to get some of my father’s belongings for the hospital. When I opened his drawer, I was startled to see so many images of my husband alongside photos of our children. I know how much Dad treasured images and kept only those he genuinely liked near to him. That demonstrated to me that over time, he had grown to tolerate and even love my spouse. I am pleased to report that Dad’s intuition was incorrect after all.

Story 2:

My mother was a widowed immigrant woman who raised six children. She fought so hard to fulfill both conventional parental responsibilities, even while others advised her to remarry. She always placed us, her children, first. That meant working long hours on the second shift, missing the majority of our school days, and providing us entire freedom and independence to pursue our hobbies and turn them into passions.

She’s a retired baddie now, and all we do is look after her and support her excursions back to her native country, Laos. © Someradkid / Reddit.

Story 3:

My parents are not perfect, but they did a lot of things well. The most notable is their support for things my brother and I enjoy, even if they don’t understand or appreciate them. They didn’t like skateboarding, yet they paid hundreds of dollars over the years so my brother could enjoy his passion. They not only helped me purchase a drum equipment, but they also let the band practice in our basement and drove us to all of our gigs.

They wanted me to be a lawyer, but they were ready to settle for a line cook position. It made a difference in the long run because it taught me that I got to make my own decisions in life—nothing is predetermined for me. I can accomplish whatever I want, and my parents will be there to cheer me on. © mgraunk/Reddit

Story 4:

When my father abandoned my mother for another woman, I planned to never talk to him again. My mother sat down with me and my siblings and said, “Even though your father was a bad husband, do not let this strain your relationship with him because he is, and will continue to be, a fantastic father.”

I cannot image how difficult it must have been. I give her credit for the amazing relationship I still have with my father. © gogu***6/Reddit

Story 5:

My father worked seven days a week, twelve hours a day, at two separate hospitals throughout the most of my upbringing. The man would become sick when on vacation, which he referred to as “motionless sickness.” He still managed to get up several hours early and cook breakfast for me and my sister before school.

He was a firm believer in hard work and set a great example for me, while being a child at heart. I’m not sure how he accomplished it, but I love him. © TurtleFisher54 | Reddit

Story 6:

My mother constantly tells her friends that when it came to my brother and me, she “spoiled us with things but not our attitude.” Both of my parents worked hard to be where they are now and to provide everything for my brother and me, as they grew up with nothing.

They constantly reminded us that hard effort pays off and that we should not expect things to come easily.

I never felt like they had a favorite child; they always treated us all equally and taught us as children that no one was beneath us. They’ve been amazing, and I’ve been quite lucky.

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Story 7:

My husband has wonderful parents and is one of the greatest individuals I know.

One of the most important things they instilled in my husband and his brother is a feeling of ‘silent praise,’ in which they are rewarded for completing their task and recognizing the influence it has on others around them. My in-laws are both physicians, which I believe contributes to this.

They were also urged to be inclusive and friendly at all times, which my grandmother-in-law referred to as ‘princely behavior’—that is, a prince should be courteous and nice to all of his people, regardless of social status. © SkynolongerBlue / Reddit

Story 8:

My mother was the only good parent I had. I call it like that because I had two stepfathers. Despite our lack of resources, she was an excellent mother. Rent was difficult to pay, and we occasionally went without water and power. I had no idea there was anything wrong with this; my mother never instilled in me any sense of concern or terror, and she always made me believe that everything would be well.

I grew up with wonderful memories and a joyful childhood, even though I went without much of the time since my mother never saw life negatively. © Unknown author/Reddit

Story 9:

My parents have my back no matter what. They always embraced me, never made me feel bad about going to art school, and when I was in a bad mood, my mother told me she would sell her house if it meant caring for me.
Fortunately, Mom didn’t have to do that, but it reinforced my understanding of unconditional love and the significance of family. © AmberFall92 | Reddit

Story 10:

My father worked a high-level job, so he couldn’t be home for supper most nights. Every morning, instead of family supper, we ate breakfast together as a family before he took us to school.

It wasn’t until I was an adult and wanted to sleep as late as possible while also frequently waking up to stressful job concerns that I recognized how much of a sacrifice this was. That was our family time—with our father.

Even when my siblings were adolescents and school started later, they were obliged to get up early and have breakfast (before returning to bed). I respect it. © frnoss | Reddit

Story 11:

When I was a child, we lived near a highway. One day, I asked my mother how long the freeway ran and where we’d wind up if we simply hopped on and drove.

She had a map. Has she shown it to me?

Nope. She said, “Let’s see.” We got in the vehicle and drove for hours until we were both fatigued, then brought out the map and picked a route home along the shores of one of the United States’ Great Lakes. This was in the 1980s, before GPS and cell phones. I was around ten years old, and she let me navigate home.

She could have just informed me or shown me the map without leaving the couch, but she wanted me to know… and perhaps she wanted to know herself. That’s how she’s always been; it’s incredible. © Panic_Azimuth | Reddit

Story 12:

My parents migrated to Canada with the sole goal of providing a better life for my brother and myself. A better atmosphere, more chances, and overall improvement. They abandoned our whole family and friends and relocated here with only the four of us.

They worked really hard for the first several years, earning very little and living in a small apartment in Toronto. Looking back, I’m honestly surprised they didn’t give up and return home, where they had decent careers and plenty of support.

I am so glad they didn’t. My parents’ unwavering love and support have given me all I have and who I am. © Lenerz / Reddi