An American woman back from Europe discusses why life seems more challenging in the US.

Emigrating to Europe: The Allure
Many Americans contemplate moving to Europe due to its attractive qualities: walkable cities, better employment rights, and affordable healthcare. Kayleigh, a US citizen, was among those tempted by these benefits and emigrated to Ireland. She shared her experiences on TikTok, where some of her videos garnered millions of views.
The Move Back to America
Kayleigh eventually returned to the US, lured by the promise of higher wages. She reasoned, “I thought I’d earn more money in America. Sure, I’d have less vacation time, but I could still save a lot.” She believed this move might also allow her to return to Europe later if she chose to.

Disillusionment with the American Dream
However, Kayleigh’s return to the US has not gone as planned. She lamented, “My bank account has dwindled since I moved back. I’ve actually lost money.” She also experienced burnout and quit her ‘career job,’ now pursuing a different path. “I got caught up in the American Dream,” she reflected. “It’s not what it used to be.”
Generational Perspectives and Costs
Kayleigh criticized the older generation’s lack of understanding of the younger generation’s struggles. In response to comments about Ireland’s high cost of living, she admitted, “Ireland isn’t cheap either, but it’s still cheaper than where I am in America now.”
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Plans for the Future
Kayleigh plans to move back to Europe, but this time, not to Ireland. She aims for the Netherlands. Reflecting on her experience, she shared, “Despite taking a 20% pay cut moving to Europe, I had much more disposable income.” Another commenter expressed enthusiasm, saying, “I’m sold! Gotta start packing my bags.”