I just finished 22 weeks of army training. While I was away, my wife, who I’ve been married to for a year, cheated on me with several guys. When I got home last week, I found explicit videos on her iPad showing her with them. I haven’t confronted her yet, and I’m unsure how to handle it.
This situation has left me heartbroken and confused. I never expected this betrayal, especially after everything we’ve been through. It’s hard to digest seeing these videos, and I’m struggling with what to do next. I’m still processing the shock and trying to figure out how to approach her about this without letting my emotions get in the way.
I know I need to address it, but I’m not sure if I should confront her right away or take some time to figure out what I want moving forward. Any advice on how to handle this would be greatly appreciated.
