At work, there was a quiet guy named Paul who always ate the same plain sandwich for lunch. No chips, no drink. We teased him about it, and he’d just smile. When he quit, I helped clean his desk and found a stack of children’s drawings tied with a rubber band—stick figures, hearts, and notes saying, “Thank you, Mr. Paul.” One showed him handing sandwiches to kids in a line.
Later, he told me to visit the West End Library at 6 p.m. There, I found Paul handing brown paper lunch bags to about fifteen kids who were struggling or homeless. “Most don’t get dinner,” he said. Those boring sandwiches weren’t for him—they were practice. He made identical peanut butter and jelly sandwiches every morning so the kids could count on something familiar.
Paul grew up in foster care and knew hunger firsthand. For him, this wasn’t charity—it was healing. When he collapsed from exhaustion, I promised to keep going. Coworkers joined in, and “Sandwich Fridays” were born. Paul later started a nonprofit, One Meal Ahead. He never sought praise—just quietly made sure no child went hungry.