
At seven months pregnant, I uncovered messages that shattered my sense of security—my husband had been unfaithful. The discovery felt overwhelming, both emotionally and physically. Sitting on the edge of the bed, phone in hand, I reread the words that changed everything. My first instinct was clear: leave and protect myself. But heartbreak mixed with late pregnancy made every decision feel heavier and more fragile.
When my father entered the room, he didn’t rush to judge or advise. He simply sat beside me until I felt steady. Then he urged patience, suggesting I wait until after the baby was born before making any life-altering moves. He even claimed he had once made a similar mistake during my mother’s pregnancy, a confession that stunned me.
Fear for my health ultimately guided me. I chose to focus on rest and preparing for my son’s arrival. After he was born healthy, my father admitted his story wasn’t true—he had only wanted to protect me during a vulnerable time.